Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Express your Feelings

       Say what is on your mind. Lies destroy more than just the truth.
       "Look at that fat lady. Lady, you are fat, because you eat all that garbage all day, because you feel that void inside you." But the void is not in your stomach. It is in your soul. You lack something (love, money, health, etc.) and you think that eating all day will fill that emptiness. "Mister, you are poor, and you cry all day, like that is going to change anything." You are poor because your everyday, every week, every month, actions have led you here.
       A wise man once said: "Doing the things you have ever done will always get you the results you have ever got."
       What have you ever done in order to deserve money? Have you developed special skill in  some branch to deserve to be paid? Have you developed your social skills to deliver better human interaction? No? Then, I am sorry, but no one will give you that money you so badly wish, to buy those thing the media tells you "really" need. But this is another story and I will tell it some other time.
       Still here? Good! This means you are on the right track in discovering your full, alpha personality.
       Now something to say to that girlfriend of yours: "I don't feel like coming this weekend with you at the wedding, even though we are a couple. Don't take it personaly, but I feel like I need to recharge my batteries, because I feel empty inside and I need some time for myself. If this bothers you, you should make a list of hobbies and have yourself some time alone, and stop being this blood thirsty vampire that you are". If she loves you she will not say a thing and do what you told her to do.
       Stop asking all the time for life advice. What should I do if X did that...? What about now, if Y said this to me? Should I go to the bathroom now? Your life is yours, and so it should be. No one is qualified to live your life for you.
       Do what you want to do, say what you feel, go where you want, with who you want,when you want, but remember what I said earlier to the man who cried he is poor, and to the woman that cried she is fat. You are responsible for all that you have became until now. Trust me. You can be the richest person alive if you just made a purpose of this. You have all life in front of you. I don't want to become an "energeticism freak", but it is a matter of directing your life energies in one way to acoomplish a thing. If your energy is scattered in all direction then, congratulations: you have all chances of being that average person the world will forget a few years after he/she dies.
       We live in fear. We fear to tell the truth because we don't like to hear the truth and we assume that nobody does. We think that we harm with our words, when in fact the truth sets us free. If your friends don't accept what you trully have to say, that they are not your friends.
       An alpha personality is always able to tell the truth, no matter what the consequences are.
       What is your truth? Leave it below in a comment.    

There is no Magic Pill

       This is the first of many posts about human nature and human interactionAs the title of the post says, there is no magic pill in having great human interaction, either with persons the same sex as us, or not. At least I have no knowledge of it been invented yet. Anyway, the result is the same. We don't get to eat a drug and we transform into the best, most charismatic person that ever lived.
        With this out of our way we can move forward into determining what makes an interesting person so, interesting, and where is that magnet that attracts you hid. But first of all I would like to make a few things clear about this blog:
        1. All that I write here is verified information. Either taken from other sources and put to the test, or thing that I have experienced without even knowing other have been in the same situation as me.
       2. This should be a dialogue, not a monologue. After each post you should complete the ideas stated with your own experiences or opinions. If you have a question, ask.
       3. The "Game" hasn't changed in a while (thousands of year)  and the rules will stay the same long enough for you not to be affected. And by "game" I mean this perpetual dance we humans are performing, some better and some not that well.
          4. The moment you decide to read me, you should realize that true change can only come trough hard work. And by that I mean not only reading. The correct proportion is 20% read 80% practice. Sounds much? Not by far. Many charismatic people didn't even have the luxury of others opening their eyes. They had to do it all by themselves. 
       Evolving your personality is a tough  job, but once you realise it takes dedication in order to have an enjoyable "inside" the battle is halfway won.
       So, for starters, write down some questions you have about any human interaction you think you need advice. I will try to write a new article every week, so stay close, and stand tall.