There is no Absolute Truth

        In the eyes of a religious person, having an abortion is a capital sin. Whereas, for an assaulted woman, in case she got pregnant, abortion may be the only solution.
       Still, everyday I am witness of people mindlessly ignoring and denying every other truth but their own. We, as human beings, are limited. That is the first truth we must accept. Like any other human being, no matter how smart, dynamic or capable you are, you only have 24 hours a day. At a global scale, it doesn't matter how many experience you have, or how many situations you have faced. The conclusions you have come up to, the life lessons you have learned, your emotional experience, are infinitesimal and are called your own reality.
        Your reality is not my reality.
         If you want to respect, to be listened to, and most of all, to be understood, you have to make the first step and respect, listen and understand. If you come in contact with my reality, you only have two options: understand me or make me your enemy. 
        If you try to impose me your reality, I will fight it, because it has no real value to me. You live your life, I live mine. Our experiences are different. 
        I look at religions, and I come to realize that all think that they hold the ultimate truth, and all their religions are wrong. Isn't that so human-like, and not God-like at all? To believe that you are the best and all others are lying and deceiving? That's a laugh!
       The same is with people discriminating others regarding skin color, gender, sexual orientation, culture, habits and a thousand more reasons. The only reasonable thing is to accept, tolerate and understand. You can not fight 7 billion people, can you? If you can't do that for the people that surround you, go mind your own business, life and truth.
        Respect, accept and value others opinion. You have your opinions, value system in two word, like everybody else. It is true that some people stand more firm on their feet and have a stronger value system than others, but everybody has a value system, and deserve a chance to express feelings and emotions.
       We all think that our problems are the biggest, that our life is the toughest and our life experiences are the most meaningful. It is just an illusion! You are not much valuable than the person near you. Until you learn to find yourself in each and every person you come along, you will not understand your role on this Earth. If you were better than all the people on this planet, you wouldn't have been born here, handling the same problems we all do, living and dying the same as we all do. We shouldn't look for answers in our differences, but in our similarities. 
       So, next time you want to criticize someone, put yourself in their boots for a little. Try  and live their experiences. Then think about it. 
       Have a nice weekend! 
        
         

Express your Feelings

       Say what is on your mind. Lies destroy more than just the truth.
       "Look at that fat lady. Lady, you are fat, because you eat all that garbage all day, because you feel that void inside you." But the void is not in your stomach. It is in your soul. You lack something (love, money, health, etc.) and you think that eating all day will fill that emptiness. "Mister, you are poor, and you cry all day, like that is going to change anything." You are poor because your everyday, every week, every month, actions have led you here.
       A wise man once said: "Doing the things you have ever done will always get you the results you have ever got."
       What have you ever done in order to deserve money? Have you developed special skill in  some branch to deserve to be paid? Have you developed your social skills to deliver better human interaction? No? Then, I am sorry, but no one will give you that money you so badly wish, to buy those thing the media tells you "really" need. But this is another story and I will tell it some other time.
       Still here? Good! This means you are on the right track in discovering your full, alpha personality.
       Now something to say to that girlfriend of yours: "I don't feel like coming this weekend with you at the wedding, even though we are a couple. Don't take it personaly, but I feel like I need to recharge my batteries, because I feel empty inside and I need some time for myself. If this bothers you, you should make a list of hobbies and have yourself some time alone, and stop being this blood thirsty vampire that you are". If she loves you she will not say a thing and do what you told her to do.
       Stop asking all the time for life advice. What should I do if X did that...? What about now, if Y said this to me? Should I go to the bathroom now? Your life is yours, and so it should be. No one is qualified to live your life for you.
       Do what you want to do, say what you feel, go where you want, with who you want,when you want, but remember what I said earlier to the man who cried he is poor, and to the woman that cried she is fat. You are responsible for all that you have became until now. Trust me. You can be the richest person alive if you just made a purpose of this. You have all life in front of you. I don't want to become an "energeticism freak", but it is a matter of directing your life energies in one way to acoomplish a thing. If your energy is scattered in all direction then, congratulations: you have all chances of being that average person the world will forget a few years after he/she dies.
       We live in fear. We fear to tell the truth because we don't like to hear the truth and we assume that nobody does. We think that we harm with our words, when in fact the truth sets us free. If your friends don't accept what you trully have to say, that they are not your friends.
       An alpha personality is always able to tell the truth, no matter what the consequences are.
       What is your truth? Leave it below in a comment.