Love at first sight means physical atraction at first sight

                                    
        Love at first sight involves that the sense responsible for getting in love is sight, right?
       What can sight tell us about a person we have just met? Well it can tell us that the person is or is not good looking, if it is healthy, if he or she has good genes, if they are sexually attractive,maybe something about body language, and so on. OK. What is sexual attraction? It is nature's way of taking our minds and playing with them so the species can perpetuate. But what does nature want when the main objective is the perpetuation of species? To produce the best individuals it can. What is necessary for that? It has to make sure that the individuals with the best genes procreate. Thus, it need to check the next variables: good genes, physical health, handsomeness, survival skill (in our case social skills).I these genes are passed by, the individuals created will have more chances to reproduce themselves and so on. Bingo! Survival and reproduction. That is all nature knows.
        Now, there is no reason to feel bad, if you have not "procreate" much yourself. This nature ritual, to name it such is not really suiting for humans. And you can see the results everywhere arround you. Single, young mothers left to raise their children after argues or even fights with her husband. Children growing up at an orphanage. I could say that this sexual attraction has only bad things in store for everyone. It blind people and they can not see  in perspective. The omit having in consideration the long run. Of course that is where contraception steps in, but not always...
       So, can you distinguish if a person you have never met before is good for you to mate with, only by taking a glance at them? With a little intuition, and some practice, yes, you can. But that is only the surface of a person. You can not choose, as a woman, a total douchebag to be the father of your son, only because he is handsome, has an active social life, a good job and a huge house. Or, can you? This is where education kicks in, and maybe some experience, but in case of women experience is something that is taken into consideration way to late, if not at all.
      Can a relationship that started with sexual attraction end up to develop based on true love? Of course! Can it end up bad for both? Most of the times it does! It is kind of gambleing if you ask me.
      Love is a wonderful thing, that can not exist without sexual attraction, but that is just the first step.
      Tell me about your recent "love at first sight" adventures in a comment below!  

Personality test

              The last few days we started talking about some common personality issues. The knowledge of anything starts with self-consciousness, so today I propose you a personality test. 
         There are 16 main personality types, but there is a swift chance you are a combination of two or more. Here are the types:

           Some people go for a simplified form:

 

              To determine what type you are there is an interesting personality test over here: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp

              Comment below what type you are, and don't forget to subscribe!

There is no Magic Pill

       This is the first of many posts about human nature and human interaction.  As the title of the post says, there is no magic pill in having great human interaction, either with persons the same sex as us, or not. At least I have no knowledge of it been invented yet. Anyway, the result is the same. We don't get to eat a drug and we transform into the best, most charismatic person that ever lived.

        With this out of our way we can move forward into determining what makes an interesting person so, interesting, and where is that magnet that attracts you hid. But first of all I would like to make a few things clear about this blog:
        1. All that I write here is verified information. Either taken from other sources and put to the test, or thing that I have experienced without even knowing other have been in the same situation as me.
       2. This should be a dialogue, not a monologue. After each post you should complete the ideas stated with your own experiences or opinions. If you have a question, ask.
       3. The "Game" hasn't changed in a while (thousands of year)  and the rules will stay the same long enough for you not to be affected. And by "game" I mean this perpetual dance we humans are performing, some better and some not that well.
          4. The moment you decide to read me, you should realize that true change can only come trough hard work. And by that I mean not only reading. The correct proportion is 20% read 80% practice. Sounds much? Not by far. Many charismatic people didn't even have the luxury of others opening their eyes. They had to do it all by themselves. 
       Evolving your personality is a tough  job, but once you realise it takes dedication in order to have an enjoyable "inside" the battle is halfway won.
       So, for starters, write down some questions you have about any human interaction you think you need advice. I will try to write a new article every week, so stay close, and stand tall.